Guides

Practical help for making friends, dealing with loneliness, and rebuilding a social life.

For more personal, speculative thoughts on connection and the future of community, see Manifestos.

How to Make Friends as an Adult

Making real friends after your twenties is hard, but it isn't random. Seven habits that actually work, plus an effortless way to put them on autopilot.

How to Make Friends in a New City

Just moved? Seven practical steps for rebuilding local friendship after your routines, familiar faces, and standing plans reset to zero.

How to Deal with Loneliness

Loneliness is a signal, not a flaw. Seven practical ways to rebuild steadier, deeper contact without pretending a crowded room is enough.

What Is a Supper Club?

A supper club is a small group that meets regularly for shared meals and real conversation. Here's how modern dinner clubs work.